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ALL In or ALL OUT

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Greetings! Because I realise that I am not a professional blogger and I don't aspire to be one, it takes the pressure off my shoulders to write something perfect and this is a perfect place to dump my feelings, thoughts and conclusions.  We have been often told how important it is to be fully committed to anything we do in our personal as well as professional life but being somebody who always has a backup plan and a backup plan for a backup plan, it was difficult for me to believe in it. But after thinking and then overthinking, I realised that although this makes sense, it makes sense only for some cases. My personal life has always been a mess because of all the decisions I have made to give it all to all the relationships and friendships I have been a party to. Trust me, its not worth it. This is not coming from a broken heart but an experienced mind which has weighed the efforts and the results and then concluded. You may give it all you have but you can't buy someone with...

Not In Love With The Idea of Love!!

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This is my first blog and if you know me, You already know how much I like writing for myself. But now lets see, what's on my mind! I have often been asked what makes me reluctant towards the whole relationship fiasco and this is what I intend to answer here. 'I love you' are the three easiest words I have seen floating in the world today but surprisingly, they are still prove to be the most meaningless set of words. A lot of people who are 'madly in love' will never agree to this and its understandable because ' You cannot be in love and be wise at the same time'. People have often regarded my views as 'sour grapes' but I would like to mention, 'I have been in love' and that too not just once, but twice. Each of it was different but still I will choose to not be madly in love again. 'Love' and 'relationship' has always made me lose myself and I have been lost in that other person's world. My world has started revolving ar...